The Other Person

Here’s what i think, 

The saying “Love only those that love you” -I don’t know if that’s how it goes tho’- is the most stupid saying ever-no disrespect to anyone-
Now don’t knock me before hearing me out.

I’m sure the person, whoever it is that made that deduction did so in reference to romantic considerations. But even if it were relating to romance it’d still be a lame thing to say. Because I’m thinking that they mean that when choosing a partner, you should go for the ones that love you more than the one you love.

Now if we all did this, we’d be single, because the love quotient in every relationship is tilted, and if you don’t love the person more than the person loves you it’s just backwards, in fact i think that we ought to be competitive about who loves more.

But, i digress(pardon me, I’ve always wanted to say that) 

What if the one that loves you is a monster? Or even worse a SERIAL MONSTER? Will you love that person? 
Maybe the one you love who doesn’t love you back, doesn’t because in their book you’re the monster? (Just saying) 

My opinion on this if anyone is asking is to just Love. Plain, simple one-note instruction; Love. 
Open your heart to love, don’t ‘look’ for who to love. That is another twisted way we look at love. There’s over 7 billion people on earth and you’re ‘looking’ for who to love? Where exactly are you looking? Mars?? 

Don’t look for who to love, don’t pick who to love, merely let your heart do the job, not your brain. If you love a psychotic killer, good for you, if you love a loser, good for you, if you love a minor, I’m sure we’d find a good prison for you, if you only love yourself, you’d probably not die alone.

Point is allow yourself the ability to love without inhibitions and bucket lists and pros and cons and checks. Most times what’s right for us are the things we don’t plan on, and if it doesn’t work out, then there was a problem with the relationship not the person.

Most times we attach a failed relationship to the character of the person, or thier flaws, but it isn’t anybodys fault if the ship sinks instead of sailing, you didn’t love wrong, you didn’t trust wrong. The problem was with the fit, not the people.

There’s no law anywhere that says you have to date who you love, or love who you date. But if you love who you date then that’s a plus, but it’s not compulsory to chase romantic relations with everyone who stirs your heart. Sometimes just have a love affair with a person (i said love, not romance) the heart is finicky and it’d dance to every tune out there no matter your preferences.

Life is spontaneous, so just buckle in and lean with the curves baby!